WOW. That seems to be the trend this year, unfortunately. Since I am retired and have more time now, I have been watching the Super Nanny shows hoping to get some strategies that could be used in the classroom. So many of her strategies are wonderful but are really meant to be used by parents at home. That being said, I saw an interesting trend to her work. One, clear establishment of the rules. (I think most of us do this.) Second, consistency in identifying when a child has broken a rule. (We are not so good at the consistency.) Third, consistency in the consequence for breaking a rule. (Again, not so good.) And fourth, CLOSURE. The closure involves an apology from the child to the parent/teacher and a hug. This is where I believe I failed miserably as a teacher.
So I tried to used the fourth strategy when I went in to sub in my friend's Kindergarten room. The children know me because I have been there before. I particularly focused on 2 little boys who had given me trouble before. I readily took them out of centers for 5 minutes (one minute for each year of age according to Super Nanny) and told them what the infraction was. (I had also set this up before center time as a consequence.) At the end of 5 minutes I had them apologize to me for disrupting my teaching and asked them to tell me what rule they had broken (all the usual stuff) and THEN we hugged. IT WAS OVER. I think this last stage is so important because it lifts the "bad boy" image off and gives a fresh start.
Obviously this will NOT work the first time. If you have ever watched Super Nanny, it takes a while for the kids to buy into the system. But she is extremely persistent and consistent and gets amazing results with some of the rudest children I have ever seen.
Please let me know if you try this. If you have never watched Super Nanny, please try to watch a few episodes on cable.